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November 26, 2022 7:29 pm at 7:29 pm #2142382Reb EliezerParticipant
Why did Yitzchak Avinu want to bentch Eisov with Yaakov’s brachas? In order to get it even if Yaakov behaves like Eisov as the haftorah says that even if Eisov is a brother to Yaakov, I (Hashem) love Yaakov and hate Eisov as explained by the Chasam Sofer.
December 2, 2022 10:58 am at 10:58 am #2144273Zugger613ParticipantVayeitzi: Torah of Galus
We know that before Yaakov went to live with Lavan, he spent fourteen years in the yeshiva of Shem & Ever. But why? Why wasn’t the Torah that Yaakov learnt from his father Yitzchak and his grandfather Avraham good enough?
R’ Yaakov Kamenetsky explains that before he could deal with the trickery of Lavan, Yaakov needed to learn the “Torah of Galus”. He needed to learn from Shem and Ever, who had lived through the wicked דור המבול ודור הפלגה. He needed to learn from people that had lived through societies that were evil, yet remained unaffected by them.
There is a time in all of our lives when we learn what it means to do good. But it never ends there. The next step is to keep true to our convictions, even when we live in a world that does not respect them.
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםDecember 2, 2022 11:49 am at 11:49 am #2144277Reb EliezerParticipantRashi on Achos Nevoyus shows how fourteen years is missing from Yaakov Avinu’s life which he spent at Shem and Eiver. The Baal Haturim shows how the ending letters of Vayetzei Yaakov add up to fourteen and together with the beginning letters Shem and Eiver.
December 8, 2022 10:53 pm at 10:53 pm #2146114Zugger613ParticipantVayishlach: It Never Ends
When Avram’s name was changed to Avraham, he is never referred to as Avram again. When Yaakov’s name is changed to Yisrael, he is refers to as Yaakov in the very next פסוק. Why is that?
The name Yaakov is symbolic of struggle. Yaakov is always holding on to the heel of his evil brother, holding on to existence through the bitter Galus. Yisrael is symbolic of victory; כי שרית אם אלקים ואנשים ותוכל; for you have struggled… and won.
R’ Aaron Lopiansky is explains that this is why the name Yaakov was never shelved. For as much as Yaakov Avinu had accomplished, there always remains more to be done.
We are usually referred to as בני ישראל, symbolic of all that we are and all that we have accomplished. But we are also still בני יעקב; constantly struggling to do things better and better.
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםDecember 9, 2022 9:26 am at 9:26 am #2146133Reb EliezerParticipantThe Rabbenu Bachaya in Parashas Vaychi explains that Yaakov is physical being and Yisrael is the spiritual. When adding Satan (359) to Yaakov (182) we get Yisrael (541). When Yaakov defeated the malach of Eisav, he became Yisrael by encompassing the strength of the Satan.
December 13, 2022 9:25 am at 9:25 am #2147186Reb EliezerParticipantThe Chasam Sofer explains that we have this struggle with the yetzer hara and we strive to resolve the conflict between body and soul. The goal is to make peace בקש שלום. The Satan (yetzer hara) wants to do good by eliminating conflict סור מרע, ועשה טוב and have the soul go after the desires of the body. This is not peace. We want to reverse it, ורדפהו. We will create a small conflict by having the neshama, soul do something small that the body does not like and then go after peace by having the body get used to it. So the peace will come when the body does what the soul desires through incremental improvements.
December 22, 2022 6:26 pm at 6:26 pm #2151015Zugger613ParticipantMikeitz: Blind Spies
When Yosef meets his brothers, he hits them with what seems to be a bizarre accusation. “You are spies! You have come to see the weakness of the land!” Why did Yosef pick this crime to accuse his brother of?
R’ Mattis Weinberg explains that in truth, Yosef had already revealed enough information for the brothers to figure out his identity. He told them he knew their names, knew their birth order, and knew who had done what in their youth.
The only reason the brothers didn’t figure out that the person they were talking to was their own brother is because they didn’t want it to be true. They didn’t want Yosef to have been right all along about Hashem making him king. So they fooled themselves into not seeing the truth.
This is exactly the crime that Yosef was accusing his brother of. You are not looking for the truth. You are only spies, who concern themselves only with finding the bad. You are blinded by your agenda, by your own preconceived notions.
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםDecember 22, 2022 10:11 pm at 10:11 pm #2151047Reb EliezerParticipantWe find the same idea by the meraglim, Hashem promises them EY and they look for faults rather than realize that Hashem will not promise to give them something bad.
December 29, 2022 7:20 pm at 7:20 pm #2152420Zugger613ParticipantVayigash: Silent Shepherds
When deciding where in Mitzrayim they should settle, the שבטים chose to live in Goshen. They did this so their children could be shepherds, like their fathers before them. But why? What is so great about being a shepherd?
Rabbeinu Bachya explains that a shepherd spends most of his time alone. For the sheep to have enough grass to graze, they must be far from civilization. This meant that a shepherd was often alone with his own thoughts, free to think undisturbed.
We live in a time of almost unlimited access to information and stimulation. But that makes it even more important to take some time to ourselves every once in a while and just think our own thoughts.
Thoughts that we ponder and explore on our own become a part of who we are far more than ideas that we merely receive from somebody else. Passively consuming even the most useful and enlightening information is not the same thing as thinking your own thoughts.
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםJanuary 5, 2023 7:28 pm at 7:28 pm #2154397Zugger613ParticipantVayechi: See What You Can Be
The first Rashi in this weeks parsha famously tells us that when Yaakov Avinu died, נסתמו עיניהם ולבם של ישראל, the eyes and hearts of the Jewish nation were closed up. But what does that mean?
Perhaps we can suggest that as long as Yaakov Avinu was alive, all of his descendants had somebody to look up to. They could see in front of their eyes what a perfect Jew looked like, and they could aspire to emulate him. But once Yaakov Avinu was no longer with them, they lost their living role model, and they lost their constant reminder of all that they could become.
This was the beginning of the שעבוד of מצרים. It has been pointed out that מצרים comes from the root of מצר, which means a boundary or a limitation. Mitzrayim told us that we were nothing but slaves, and we would never amount to anything. Once we allow these types boundaries to be imposed on us, we lose sight of our limitless potential, of all that we can become.
In order to not to lose sight of all that we can become, it is crucial that we stay in the presence of those who are greater than us.
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםJanuary 5, 2023 7:37 pm at 7:37 pm #2154410Reb EliezerParticipantVery nice.
January 5, 2023 9:21 pm at 9:21 pm #2154420Reb EliezerParticipantMaybe this is the meaning of the statement והיו עינך רואות את מוריך, keep your rabbeim constantly in front of you, to have someone to learn from.
January 6, 2023 1:26 pm at 1:26 pm #2154527Reb EliezerParticipantI once heard the interpretation of אל תקרא הליכות אלא הלכות from the way one behaves we should learn halachas.
January 13, 2023 10:11 am at 10:11 am #2156117Zugger613ParticipantShemos: Tasting Geulah
When Hashem sends Moshe to Paraoh, things don’t go seem to go very well. Not only does Paraoh not let the Jews go, but he makes them work harder. Why did Hashem allow this first tease of redemption to end prematurely?
R’ Aaron Lopiansky points out (based on medrashim) that this goes to the very nature of geulah. There is always a first glimpse of the geulah, which then seems to fade away. But what is the purpose of this first stage?
R’ Lopiansky explains that those who have grown accustomed to the darkness of galus don’t even know what geulah looks like. In order to truly yearn for the geulah, we need to get a taste of it first.
This is why geulah often begins with a false start that quickly fades away. Once we get a glimpse of what life could be like under the leadership Moshe, as living as Hashem’s chosen people, we will be properly incentivized to do whatever it takes to bring back the geulah.
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםJanuary 19, 2023 9:11 pm at 9:11 pm #2157938Zugger613ParticipantVaeira: Two Types of Teffilah
When Hashem tells Moshe that he will redeem Bnei Yisroel, He lists two seemingly different reasons. First, the fact that he promised the Avos to redeem their children. Second, “and also I have accepted the cries of Bnei Yisroel that are being oppressed by Mitzrayim”. Is there any connection between these two things?
The R’ Yoel Teitelbaum explains that there are different types of teffilah. The highest type of teffilah is to daven for the sake of Shechina, to daven for peace and prosperity so that the world can recognize and connect to its Creator. But there are “lower” levels of teffilah as well, of Jews l praying for their own salvation.
Somebody who has reached the level of being able to daven for the Shechina is very likely to have their teffilos answered. But when the time of Geulah draws near, Hashem is willing to listen to “lower” levels of teffilah, of people crying out due to their own pain.
Since the time was quickly approaching that Hashem had promised the Avos that He would redeem Bnei Yisroel, Hashem accepted the teffilos that were only a result of the oppression they faced in Mitzrayim.
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםJanuary 20, 2023 11:39 am at 11:39 am #2158069Reb EliezerParticipantOn the geulah for Shemos there is a saying, it is always the darkest before dawn. The geulah comes stepwise as sunrise.
The Pelei Yoetz explains that when we say ‘לישועתך קויתי ה we should keep in mind that the shechina is also in galus and pray for it, for Your (Hashem) salvation.
We should emulate our Avos, as the Baal Haturim in Voeschanan explains that ואהבת has the same letters as האבות (Rashi Vairo, el haavos). Similarly, like Avraham Avinu, בכל לבבך who dedicated his whole heart, בכל נפשך like Yitzchak Avinu who sacrificed himself and בכל מאדך like Yaakov Avinu who dedicated his money to Hashem (giving maaser) by showing their love towards Him.January 20, 2023 4:24 pm at 4:24 pm #2158132Reb EliezerParticipantThe Pelei Yoetz really says it on Shemonei Esrei, לישועתך קוינו כל היום that we hope for Your (Hashem) salvation.
January 26, 2023 5:44 pm at 5:44 pm #2159994Zugger613ParticipantBo: Living Emunah
After finishing the story of Bnei Yisroel leaving Mitzrayim, the Torah tells us about the mitzva of Teffilin. Through the parshiyos of Tefillin, we are to bind the the story of יציאת מצרים to our weaker arm and to our head. But why do we put Teffilin on specifically these locations?
R’ Shamshon Raphael Hirsh explains through Teffilin, we internalize the message of יציאת מצרים – that we owe our freedom and our very existence to Hashem, and that we therefore belong entirely to Him.
By binding Teffilin to our arms, we express that these ideals should be the guide for all of about actions. By putting them on our heads, we express that they are the basis of all of our thoughts.
Alternatively, the Kli Yakar explains why the Teffilin is supposed to be placed on the weaker arm. This is a reminder that that it not through own strength that we accomplish what we set out to do. Without the help of Hashem, nothing is possible.
This is very in much line with a Ramban at the end of this weeks parsha Ramban that explains why we put so much emphasis on remembering יציאת מצרים. The Ramban writes that the fact that Hashem did open miracles (נסים גלוים) back then proves that Hashem runs the world. Once we acknowledge that, we will see Hashem’s hand even in the seemingly “natural” occurrences (נסים נסתרים).
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםFebruary 2, 2023 8:10 pm at 8:10 pm #2162122Zugger613ParticipantBishalach: Up To You
When Bnei Yisroel found themselves chased by Pharoh’s army and backed up against the sea, they did what seemed to be the right thing – they Davened to Hashem.
And yet, Hashem was not pleased by this response. מה תצעק אלי, דבר אל בני ישראל ויסעו, why are you calling out to me? Tell Bnei Yisroel to keep going, right into the water. Rashi puts an even stronger emphasis on this point: עלי הדבר תלי ולא עליך, is this matter mine to deal with and not yours?
It seems that unlike the Ten Makkos, there was an element of a nisayon in Kiras Yam Suf. By the ten Makkos, all Bnei Yisroel had to do was to sit back and watch the show. But that was not the case by Krias Yan Suf. This time, we had a job to do. The miracle of Krias Yam Suf would not begin until we did something to show that we believed Hashem would keep his word.
To sit back and passively absorb a lesson, even a lesson as great as the ten Makkos, can only have a limited effect on a person. But when a person decides to act on their own convictions, that becomes a part of who they are. By forcing Bnei Yisroel to make the first move before Krias Yam Suf began, Hashem was giving us an opportunity to not just think about our ideals, but to actually live them.
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםFebruary 7, 2023 9:23 am at 9:23 am #2163288Reb EliezerParticipantBo:
With the wearing of tefilin we dedicate our senses to Hashem to serve Him. The Rabbenu Hameiri explains that the Rosh has four compartments against the four senses (smell, taste, sight and sound) in the head whereas the arm and hands has one of feeling.
Beshalach:
The holy Ohr Hachaim explains that tefila alone at the yam suf was not sufficient as the Jews were accused of idol worship similar to the Mitzrim. They had to show a mesirash nefesh by getting in the yam before it turned dry to have the midas rachamim overpower the midas hadin. The Kedushas Levi actually sees this being beneficial to the Jews by encouraging the Mitzrim to have a sense of victory and run after them in the sea to get sunk into the water.February 9, 2023 9:06 pm at 9:06 pm #2164373Zugger613ParticipantYisro: How much do you want it?
Why was the story of Yisro placed immediately before Matan Torah? R’ Chaim Mintz suggests that there are things we can learn from Yisro that we all must incorporate into our lives to be able to truly accept the Torah:
Yisro was a prince in Midyan, living a pleasant life. But he was willing to give it all up, go live in the desert, and join a people he didn’t even know, so that he could hear the Divine truth.
We see how much Yisro wanted to be able to accept the Torah. We see how much the Torah meant to him, and how much he was willing to sacrifice to attain it.
We are lucky that we were born Jewish, and that Torah was pretty much given to us on a silver platter. But we cannot allow that to lead to sense to complacency. We must always stay hungry for more, stay driven to attain new heights. If we truly want to delve deeper, if the Torah is important to us, and if we are willing to sacrifice other things that we might also want, will we be able to attain it.
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםFebruary 11, 2023 8:41 pm at 8:41 pm #2164990Reb EliezerParticipantPeople learning Torah are like an astronaut. The higher they get, the more they can see what to discover. The more we delve into the Torah, the more we see how much more we can learn and appreciate and enjoy what we have learned.
February 16, 2023 8:53 pm at 8:53 pm #2166719Zugger613ParticipantMishpatim: Just Passing Through
R’ Chaim Vital (quoted by the Chida in נחל קדומים) makes two interesting observations about the word עברי.
First he explains that a Jewish slave is referred to as an עבד עברי since he was עבר על לא תגנוב, transgressed on the prohibition against theft. This is what led Beis Din to sell this man as a slave.
However, we also find that the title עברי is used positively, like the Navi Yona says about himself: עברי אנכי ואת ה׳ אני ירא. R’ Chaim Vital explains that here עברי refers to one who constantly keeps in mind that they are עובר ארח בעולם הזה דרך עראי, only temporarily passing through in this world.
These two messages seem to be related. If one keeps in mind that they are merely passing through this world, they will be far less tempted to transgress the laws of the Torah and trade eternal reward for temporary comfort or pleasure.
By keeping our sense of priorities, we can ensure that we do not become an עבד עברי, one controlled by a lust for the things of this world. Rather, we can be somebody who has their eyes on the eternal prize, and can declare: עברי אנכי ואת ה׳ אלקי השמים אני ירא.
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםFebruary 20, 2023 7:28 pm at 7:28 pm #2167653Reb EliezerParticipantWe are strangers in a strange land, temporary dwellers traveling through. Look at Sefer Pelei Yoetz on גר.
February 21, 2023 7:47 am at 7:47 am #2167708Reb EliezerParticipantA servant with temporary desires, a Jewish servant.
February 23, 2023 7:35 pm at 7:35 pm #2168826Zugger613ParticipantTerumah: Angelic Aspirations
At the pinnacle of the Mishkan, in the heart of the Kodesh HaKodashim, was a seemingly strange thing: two statues, looking at each other. The Torah goes out of its way to tell us that when Hashem spoke to Moshe, the voice of Hashem came from in between the two Keruvim. What is this supposed to teach us?
Perhaps we can suggest that the Keruvim show us how Hashem’s presence is experienced in this world. Hashem’s voice is not heard when Torah is viewed as merely an academic pursuit, meant to be studied for intellectual value.
When there is a society of people who are one with the Torah (מקשה תעשה אותם), who are at one which each other (ופניהם איש אל אחיו), and who are always looking upwards to connect to Hashem (פורשי כנפים למעלה) – then by being in the presence of those people, you will feel the presence of Hashem. Hashem’s voice is heard just by he very existence of such a people. This is who the Jewish nation aspires to be – people who bear the presence of Hashem in every aspect of their lives.
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לע”נ ר׳ חיים רוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםMarch 1, 2023 1:57 pm at 1:57 pm #2170435Reb EliezerParticipantThe holy Zohar says ישראל ואורייתא וקב’ה חד הוא. There is a unification between us, the Torah and Hashem. Through the Torah, kavayachel we become one with Hashem. Both, Hashem and the Bnei Yisrael are considered one. The holy Shlah says that שמע ישראל means to unite as an one like וישמע שאול את העם, Shaul united the nation. We ask to become one similar to Hashem.
March 1, 2023 6:17 pm at 6:17 pm #2170481Reb EliezerParticipantYeshayohu 57 says כי עוונותיכם היו מבדילים ביניכם לבין אלקיכם asks the Binah Leitim that it should have said לביניכם? He answers that originally we separate ourselves from each other which causes a separation between us and Hashem. This can be pictorially represented where we all are around a circle and Hashem is in the middle. As through the Torah to love each other, the points on the circle unite, the circle becomes smaller and eventually becomes one with the center, Hashem. We ask to become one with Hashem.
March 2, 2023 7:02 pm at 7:02 pm #2170898Zugger613ParticipantTezaveh: Justice for All
The Gemora tells us that the Choshen was מכפר on any lack of משפט and improper judgements. The Akeidas Yitzchok explains that from studying the Choshen, we can learn how to fix the problems that corrupt justice.
The Akeidas Yitzchok suggests that the lessons of the Choshen are the same thing that Moshe told the judges he appointed:
לֹֽא־תַכִּ֨ירוּ פָנִ֜ים בַּמִּשְׁפָּ֗ט כַּקָּטֹ֤ן כַּגָּדֹל֙ תִּשְׁמָע֔וּן לֹ֤א תָג֙וּרוּ֙ מִפְּנֵי־אִ֔ישׁ כִּ֥י הַמִּשְׁפָּ֖ט לֵאלֹהִ֣ים ה֑וּא וְהַדָּבָר֙ אֲשֶׁ֣ר יִקְשֶׁ֣ה מִכֶּ֔ם תַּקְרִב֥וּן אֵלַ֖י וּשְׁמַעְתִּֽיו׃The Choshen listed all the names of the Shevatim in their birth order, not in order of greatness. This teaches us that we should not show any favor to the greatest of people – justice is blind.
The Choshen had stones that were cheap next to stones that were extremely expensive. This teaches us that justice must always be taken seriously, regardless of how much or how little is at stake.
The name of Hashem was written on the Choshen to remind us that a judge cannot be afraid of any human, only of Hashem.
The Akeidas Yitzchok finishes by saying that the most common cause of getting a psak wrong is lack of knowledge. The Choshen was attached to the Urim v’Tumim, to remind the Kohen and the Dayan to constantly be seeking answers from a higher authority.
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםMarch 16, 2023 9:16 pm at 9:16 pm #2174432Zugger613ParticipantVaykhel: Fire 🔥
Of all the 39 melachos, only one is specified in the Torah: lighting a fire. To add another layer of mystery as to why this particular melacha was chosen, the Zohar adds the prohibition against lighting a fire includes getting angry (igniting the the fire of anger) on Shabbos.
R’ Aron Lopiansky explains this by looking at the root of anger. Anger almost always comes from a place of frustration. Somebody who feels that they could be accomplishing something, but that they are being held from doing so, gets angry.
But Shabbos is supposed to be the antithesis of that very mindset. On Shabbos, we acknowledge that we do not run the world. Hashem made the world, and only He continues to control it.
A person only feels frustration and anger at a perceived loss of control, if they believe they were in control in the first place. Hence כל הכועס, כאילו עובד ע״ז.
One who truly appreciates Shabbos and acknowledges that Hashem alone controls the world, will not feel the fire of anger.
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםMarch 17, 2023 6:39 pm at 6:39 pm #2174570Reb EliezerParticipantThe Mayana Shel Torah in name of the Parashes Derachim explains, for gaiva, haughtiness. Since anger comes from gaiva, haughtiness we can apply this to it. When Hashem created the man, it said נעשה אדם, in plural, teaching us to consult with the lesser. However, whoever is haughty will interpret this literally saying that Hashem created man with another entity ch’v and thereby worships a’z.
March 23, 2023 8:00 pm at 8:00 pm #2176562Zugger613ParticipantVayikra: Mitzva Not To Do
The Torah uses an interesting turn of phrase when discussing one who has accidentally sinned and needs to bring a Korban. It says one who has transgressed אחת ממצות ה׳ אשר לא תעשינה, which literally translates into “one of the Mitzvos of Hashem, which you are not to do”. Why do we refer to this as a mitzva, rather than an aveira?
R’ Moshe Shternbuch sees here an allusion to what the Gemara tells us in Kidushin: ישב ולא עבר עבירה, נותנים לו שכר כעושה מצוה. If somebody is tempted to do something wrong buts holds themselves back, they are considered to have done a positive deed.
Every human being wants to feel like they are accomplishing something. If we view the מצות לא תעשה as just pitfalls that we must keep ourselves from falling into, it can be hard to stay motivated day in and day out. This is particularly true of issurim that we have previously failed to properly adhere to.
But if we view every act of restraint as being an accomplishment, we can be much more motivated to fight the temptation to do something wrong. Each small act of restraint is a full Mitzva – an achievement of its own, and a success worth being proud of.
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לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםMarch 30, 2023 9:29 pm at 9:29 pm #2178885Zugger613ParticipantTzav: Live Your Life
If a non-Jew wants to bring a קרבן עולה, which is entirely burnt up on the מזבח, we allow him to do so. But we do not allow a non-Jew to bring a קרבן שלמים, which is a type of korban that is eaten by the one who brings it. Why is that?
Perhaps we can suggest that this is indicative of a basic difference between Judaism and most other religions. Most religions see religious value only in something that is obviously religious in nature. Giving up something for God is the type of sacrifice that they can understand.
But Judaism goes further than that. We think there is religious value even in the meals that we eat. We do not think of religion and everyday life as being two separate things. Every aspect of our day is suffused with mitzvos and imbued with meaning. Our religion is our life, and our life is our religion. This is unique to Judaism, and it is not something that a non-Jew will be able to relate to.
Perhaps this is hinted to in the name of the קרבן שלמים. This Korban celebrates serving Hashem with Shelaimus, with the complete entirety of every aspect of our lives.
לע״נ דוד חיים בן ישראל דוב הכהן
לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםApril 16, 2023 1:34 pm at 1:34 pm #2181284Reb EliezerParticipantThe goyim don’t understand the concept of sanctifying the mundane, gashmiyus, as a priest cannot marry, so only an olah is accepted from them. A shelamim creates peace between us and our Father in Heaven.
April 17, 2023 9:27 am at 9:27 am #2181508Zugger613ParticipantShemini: Constant Change
The Ramban writes that one of the reasons the Torah prohibits certain birds and animals is that these creatures have bad middos, such a cruelty. By eating them, we would be ingesting their negative traits. A person who eats these forbidden foods will become crueler or develop other bad middos.
R’ Chaim Shmuelevitz sees a similar idea in the Gemora that says: אין אדם עובר עבירה אלא אם כן נכנס בו רוח שטות, a person does not sin unless foolishness has entered him. R’ Chaim Shmuelevitz explains that the שטות that enters a person is that they do not realize that the Aveira they are about to do will change who they are from now on. (Heard from R’ Yisroel Gluestein)
If we internalize that each deed we do is a building block for who we will be for the rest of our lives, we will be for more motivated to do what’s right than if we see them just as “actions” outside of ourselves.
Each aveira that we do changes us, makes us into worse people. But each mitzva that we do changes us as well, and makes us into people with better middos and a closer relationship to Hashem.
לע״נ דוד חיים בן ישראל דוב הכהן
לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםApril 17, 2023 1:26 pm at 1:26 pm #2181610Reb EliezerParticipantThe Kli Yakar explains that by the chazir the prohibition is
justified by the Torah with the animal’s good qualities, cut hoofs. There good qualities create their issur by being fake as eisov showing its cut hoofs, how good it is.April 20, 2023 7:28 pm at 7:28 pm #2182635Zugger613ParticipantTazria: עת לקרב ועת לרחק
The Torah tells about the tumah that affects people immediately after telling us which animal are tahor and which are not. Chazal explain that just as the creation of man only took place after the creation of the animals, so too is the תורת האדם only taught after the Torah first teaches us about the תורת הבהמה. But why would this seemingly tangential idea be called the תורת האדם, what does this tell us about the very nature of people?
R’ Aaron Lopiansky explains that the nature of person is that there are times they go through stages of taharah, where they are particularly holy and close to Hashem. But every person also goes through times of tumah, where they are removed from Hashem. This is not just an accident. This is the very nature of man.
The avodah of person in their time of taharah is obvious – to relish being close to Hashem. But there is also an avodah to be accomplished in times of tumah, in times of disconnection. During those times of disconnection a person should recognize that they are distant from Hashem, and should internalize just how empty that disconnection is. By doing so, even the time of tumah will serve to accentuate the importance of קרבת ה׳.
לע״נ דוד חיים בן ישראל דוב הכהן
לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםApril 27, 2023 10:17 pm at 10:17 pm #2185015Zugger613ParticipantKedoshim: Sweet Revenge?
One of the most difficult Mitzvos can be found in this weeks parsha. If somebody refuses to let you borrow their car, you cannot refuse to lend them your car in revenge. Not only that, but you’re not even allowed to comment on how you’re better than they are. How is this humanly possible?
The Chinuch explains that if we see the person in front of us as being the cause for our trouble yesterday, it will indeed be exceedingly difficult to be nice to him. But there’s another way of looking at things.
If we instead see our misfortune as being ultimately the decision of Hashem, we will not take the whole thing personally. We will see the person in front of us as somebody who as have done something wrong, but not as somebody who we need to get back at.
R’ Moshe Shapiro says that נקמה is from the root קם, to rise. If we feel somebody else has knocked us down, we feel a need to pick ourselves back up above them, usually by knocking them back down. But if we see any misfortune we suffer as being from Hashem, we will not feel this visceral need to lash out at somebody who has not been nice to us.
(Adapted from R’ Lopiansky’s Fundamentals on the Parsha)
לע״נ דוד חיים בן ישראל דוב הכהן
לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםApril 28, 2023 2:09 pm at 2:09 pm #2185149Reb EliezerParticipantIf you have any other reason not to lend the car, is one thing but don’t resist from nekama, revenge.
April 28, 2023 6:00 pm at 6:00 pm #2185197Reb EliezerParticipantThe Tzetel Katan says that our purpose in life is to fight our bad nature.
May 4, 2023 7:50 pm at 7:50 pm #2187324Zugger613ParticipantEmor: Secret of the Omer
We know from the Sefer HaChinuch that we count ספירה to show how much we look forward to receiving the Torah on Shavous. And yet, the Sefira is tied specifically to the Omer, a Korban we bring on Pesach. What is the connection between the Omer and accepting the Torah?
I believe it was R’ Matisyahu Salomon Shlita who suggested the following idea: The measurement of the Omer comes up in another place in the Torah. By the מן, each person ended up with exactly one Omer worth of מן, regardless of how much or how little they worked on collecting. From here we see that parnassa is in the hands of Hashem, and only He decides how much we ultimately take home, regardless of how much or how little we work.
One of the prerequisites for being mekabel the Torah is simply putting in the time necessary to learn. But somebody who thinks that how much they make depends on how hard they work may simply be too busy to learn. However, somebody who internalizes the idea of the Omer, that his material well-being is ultimately only up to Hashem, will be able to find time to learn the Torah.
לע״נ דוד חיים בן ישראל דוב הכהן
לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםMay 5, 2023 9:28 am at 9:28 am #2187420Reb EliezerParticipantBefore learning we need derech eretz, proper behavior. The Omer also elevates us from an animal which eats barley, remembering by sacrificing a barley offering to a human being who eats wheat, the two breads sacrificed on Shevuos, Kabolas haTorah.
May 11, 2023 7:04 pm at 7:04 pm #2189825Zugger613ParticipantBehar: Embracing the Uncertainty
The Kli Yakar has a fascinating explanation for the prohibition against Ribis, against charging another Jew interest for a loan.
The Kli Yakar writes that charging interest will take away a person’s bitachon. Every other business venture has some element of risk in it. Since a person does not know how much he will gain or lose in his business, this uncertainty will drive him to daven to Hashem. But someone who charges interest will think of themselves as having a steady, secure, and predictable income. This person will find it much harder to feel Hashem’s presence.
We all crave certainty and stability. But that sense of security can be stupefying, robbing us of one of the primary ways in which we connect to Hashem.
When a crack in the veneer of stability comes, as it always does, we should not waste it. We ought to use every crisis as an opportunity to strengthen our relationship with Hashem, to turn to Him for help.
כי הוא קלי, וחי גאלי, וצור חבלי בעת צרהלע״נ דוד חיים בן ישראל דוב הכהן
לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםMay 11, 2023 10:43 pm at 10:43 pm #2189870Reb EliezerParticipantMaybe this is the meaning according to the Rav Ben Ish Chai ztz’l of the pasuk לא יחצו ימיהם. The gemora says in Meseches Shabbos that Yitzchak Avinu was learning zechus on the Jews that half of the time they should not be responsible for sinning as they are sleeping, so we can divide their days. However one who takes ribus (interest from a Jew) sins also at night because the money makes money even when sleeping and therefore we cannot divide his days. ואני אבטח בך but I trust in you, so I will not take interest and my days can be divided.
May 18, 2023 7:59 pm at 7:59 pm #2191693Zugger613ParticipantBamidbar: Share the Wealth
There is a Medrash that explains why Seder Bamidbar starts with discussing the desert: כל מי שאינו עושה עצמו כמדבר הפקר, אינו יכול לקנות את תורה. לכך נאמר, במדבר סיני
“Anybody who does not make themselves hefker like a desert cannot acquire Torah.”R’ Shimon Schwab explains that this הפקרות means one should freely share the Torah that they learn and develop with others. Furthermore, it should not bother a person if the ideas that they develop are later said over שלא בשם אמרו, without being attributed to him.
Rav Dessler shares a similar idea. He writes that everything we have is not truly ours. Rather, it is a פדון that Hashem has entrusted us with, and He has charged us with using it to benefit others.
But Rav Dessler adds this is not only true by physical belongings. Any spiritual wealth and wisdom that we are lucky enough to attain should be regarded the same way – as Hashem’s gifts that He has leant us for the purpose of helping others.
לע״נ דוד חיים בן ישראל דוב הכהן
לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםMay 19, 2023 11:40 am at 11:40 am #2191750Reb EliezerParticipantThe Binah Leitim explains איזהו עשיר השמח בחלקו, to be truly happy, we must share our wealth by making others also happy. All qualities in the mishna is a poel yotzei, something done to others. איזהו חכם הלומד מכל אדם. It says מתלמידי יותר מכולם, when one teaches, he learns. איזהו מכובד המכבד את הבריות it does not say המכבדים אותו, who is honored as he has no control over being honored.
May 19, 2023 11:40 am at 11:40 am #2191746Reb EliezerParticipantכי ה’ נתן לנו כח לעשות חיל Hashem gives us the abilities, mind and understanding to mechadesh something in the Torah. The Chasam Sofer explains that a person is not allowed to say something new. All chidushim are hidden in the Torah and we are given the abilities to find them. The Rav Haflaah in Parashas Bo says that a kashye, a question comes from a Devine intervention, a siyata dishmaya which is usually required to get the hidden Torah revealed. He gives a parable to a simple person who is given a diamond. What am I going to do with it? As he likes gold, goes to a goldsmith to cover it in gold. The goldsmith being no expert, leaves some holes. The simple person only sees the gold. However the smart person sees the diamond under the gold. The kashye gets us to see the diamond underneath the gold.
May 25, 2023 12:08 pm at 12:08 pm #2193081Zugger613ParticipantShavous: Seeing the Sounds
Rashi famously quotes the Medrash tha at Har Sinai, we all saw the sounds of the Aseres HaDibros. What message was this seemingly unnecessary miracle trying to convey?
R’ Moshe Shapiro explains that seeing and hearing are fundamentally different. Hearing words is a process of stringing together different sounds. You cannot hear and comprehend an entire sentence in the same second. You need to hear each syllable separately to make sense of it.
Seeing is the exact opposite. When one sees a scene, they see everything at once.
Explains R’ Moshe Shapiro, seeing and hearing represent two different facets of the Torah. We need to see the big picture, to understand what the Torah is trying to do to us, who the Torah wants us to be. But we also cannot lose sight of the fact that the Mitzvos are like sounds, with each and every small detail being crucial to getting the message across.
We cannot lose sight of the forest for the trees, nor can we skip or brush aside even the most minute detail of halachic observance. True adherence to the Torah requires that we see both.
לע״נ דוד חיים בן ישראל דוב הכהן
לע״נ ר׳ חיים דוב בן ר׳ בןציון שלוםMay 27, 2023 9:32 pm at 9:32 pm #2193159Reb EliezerParticipantTorah shebaal peh, the oral law was also given at Har Sinai which was heard should be as clear the written law which is seen. The Rabbenu Bachaya gives a parable where a king wanted to be sure that his servants don’t take advantage of the rewards when commanding his son, so his said certain explanations orally. The Chasam Sofer gives another parable where a father has a goldmine which he wanted to give to his smallest child. He teaches him the act of goldmining and divides it equally but since the others did not know what to do with it, it automatically fell for the youngest child. The written law is the goldmine and the oral law the act of goldmining. This is like the Midrash Tanchuma where the Jews where given the written law and had to be forced on the oral law. The goyim never accepted the written law, so there was no reason to force them. Can also be that the Jews originally accepted the Torah with full will and then reneged by being scared from the great fire as explained by Tosfas but the goyim only questioned what the Torah contains and accepted nothing.
June 1, 2023 8:32 pm at 8:32 pm #2194972Zugger613ParticipantNaso: Shouldering with Simcha
The Gemora finds a very surprising source for having Shira while the Kohanim do the Avodah. The passuk in our Parsha says that the family of Kehas did not receive any wagons to carry the Aron. Rather, בכף ישאו, they were to carry it on their shoulders. The Gemora points out that in Tehillim this word is used to denote singing: שאו זמרה. But what is it he connection between carrying a load and singing Shira?
R’ Aaron Lopiansky explains that one can be shouldering a responsibility in one of two very different ways. One approach is to view the responsibility as a burden, something that you must do even though you don’t want to.
Alternatively, one can view what they carry not as a burden, but as a fulfillment of their life’s mission. A great example of this is a parent carrying a child on their shoulders. The parent sees the child as a continuation of the parent, as their pride and joy. If one views carrying the Torah in this way, they will see it as ארון נושא נושאיו, that the Aron is really carrying them.
There is an easily apparent difference between these attitudes. One who bears a burden groans under its weight. But a parent carrying their child sings with joy. When it comes to carrying the Torah, we must pick the second option. We shoulder the responsibility of the Torah with song & joy.
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