Its unfortunate, but when you look around these days its seems like broken homes RL, are not too scarce these days. Somehow, I get the feeling that its more commen today than it was years ago.
I know that the Torah gives us the right to divorce whereas by Catholics and some other religions it not very accepted. In fact they say its a Mitzvah for aman to give his wife a get if she wants one. But are couples with children perhaps splitting up for reasons which can be worked on?
A well known female personality in our frum society claims that physical abuse should be the only excuse to break up a family. When someone asked her if a women should seek a get when she suspects
infidelity? She said no.
She continued to say that if it bothers a woman, and it leaves a bad taste in her mouth, she should go to the sink and ‘spit it out’.
Please share your thoughts. Is Kovod more important than giving your children a proper stable home? Furthermore, why is it more common today than it was?
